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Love over rules — it’s time for disobedience in the Anglican Church of Southern Africa

It’s time for Anglican clergy in southern Africa to follow their conscience and walk alongside the LGBTQIA+ community, providing ministry to everyone in need, blessing marriages, conducting ceremonies and affirming relationships, regardless of what the rules say.

Once again the Anglican Church of Southern Africa has told the world that only certain people are God’s children; that only certain types of people are welcome in their midst; that “difference” isn’t to be tolerated and that, in this instance, if you’re a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, you’re not welcome in the Anglican Church.

Over the past 20 years, the Anglican Church of Southern Africa has been debating how to provide care to the LGBTQIA+ community. And nothing has changed. It continues to reject and oppose any attempt to provide pastoral care and ministry to this part of its membership.

The last debacle has just taken place, with the Provincial Synod (the highest authority in the church) rejecting the smallest morsel of inclusion and reconciliation offered in the form of a proposal by the church’s own bench of bishops, no less, to allow Anglican clergy to pray for gay and lesbian couples married in civil unions using a limited set of prayers designed and approved by the bishops themselves.

But even this tiniest olive branch has been turned into yet another whip of rejection!

Just to clarify the situation. Many clergy and laity within ACSA have for years been trying to get the Anglican Church to adopt pastoral guidelines which would welcome all people regardless of their sexual orientation into its midst. Such a welcome would include the blessing of marriages between people of the same sex.

The “advocates of inclusion” base their position on the supposition that there should be NO discrimination against anyone on the basis of race, gender or sexual orientation.

It’s a position held by Anglicans around the world, including by Desmond Tutu during his ministry as Archbishop of the southern African Anglican Church, and more recently, as the proposal to the synod notes, the Pope himself has called on his clergy to provide pastoral care to couples within same-sex unions by permitting prayers of blessing to be offered.

The position is supported by volumes of well-reasoned theological theses and deliberations.

It’s a position Jesus himself took, welcoming everyone to be part of his fledgling community of faith, if they wanted it. His message was clear and precise – no one is outside the circle of God’s love and embrace.

While there may be certain standards set by the church in terms of how its members should behave, rejecting someone on the basis of their race, gender, sexual orientation or any other socially created construct is clearly at odds with the way Jesus treated those who sought his help.

Quite frankly, the rejection of the bishop’s proposal by the body of the synod is an outrage.

For how long will the church’s ministry be defined and determined by synod delegates whose homophobia is at odds with scripture, with the very example of Jesus, with the position of those like Archbishop Tutu, Pope Francis and many others, and, in the case of South Africa, at odds with the constitutional rights afforded to all citizens?

Read more: Anglican Church must embrace the modern world and reject discrimination in all its manifestations

It’s time for Anglican clergy in southern Africa to follow their conscience and walk alongside the LGBTQIA+ community, providing ministry to everyone in need, blessing marriages, conducting ceremonies and affirming relationships, regardless of what the rules say.

It’s time for a form of “civil disobedience” within the church – call it “ecclesiastical disobedience” – by clergy of conscience.

It’s time for Anglican clergy to disobey the synod ruling, follow the lead provided by the bishops and, at a minimum, use the prayers they’ve crafted for pastoral care.

It’s time for caring clerics to stand up and boldly proclaim to the church structures, to the LGBTQIA+ community and to the world, that love overrules the small mindedness of homophobia and of sexist, patriarchal exclusion.

It’s time to demonstrate in loving acts of inclusion that all people matter to God and that all are welcome in the community of those who affirm love over rules. DM

Comments

charlbur Oct 2, 2024, 07:06 PM

The Bible is very clear on sin and homosexuality, verses like 1 Cor 6:9-10 and Rom 1:26-28. Yes, God does love everyone but for salvation we first need to turn from our sin and repent. Anyone in sin can attend church with a mind for repentance and salvation but living in outright sin can't blessed.

laurantsystems Oct 2, 2024, 09:01 PM

Absolutely, but the denialists don't want to hear this.

Willem Boshoff Oct 2, 2024, 10:20 PM

like you i once had an unthinking belief that everything in my english bible is god's truth. today i know that's religious indoctrination which doesn't stand up to scrutiny (i still love jesus though). it's painful to see your hubris and overconfidence when you're actually just plain wrong.

peterwaller3 Oct 3, 2024, 08:13 AM

Ah, Willem, I suppose your confidence isn't painful because you're right?

Willem Boshoff Oct 3, 2024, 09:27 AM

did i hit a nerve? my belief is rational imho; won't insist it's truth though. i rarely speak/write about this since pulling the rug from under people's false belief that the bible = truth often leaves them disorientated and troubled (as it did to me). but this hubris deserved a rebuke.

Ed Rybicki Oct 3, 2024, 10:09 PM

So: you base the morality you wish to foist on us, on a text that was written long after Yeshua walked Palestine, translated from Aramaic into Greek then Latin, by a succession of men, and then bowdlerised by men in the various incarnations of the Xtian church(es)? Please! Cthulhu rules, OK? ?

Paul Hjul Oct 2, 2024, 07:10 PM

As somebody who has been a confirmed member of the Anglican communion for 26 years the continuous failure of the ACSA to practice the Gospel it purports to preach is a continuous point of pain and disappointment.

Paul Hjul Oct 2, 2024, 07:17 PM

Some irony on obedience. Space was created in the motion for bishops to make a determination in their diocese. The opponents of the measure have forced persons of conscience who support a safe and inclusive church to practice disobedience of the position advanced by synod.

Mark Gory Gory Oct 2, 2024, 07:45 PM

walk away . take your conspicuous talents, tithes and wonderful self away from archaic institutions that barely tolerate you, whatever they claim to the contrary

Paul Hjul Oct 2, 2024, 10:02 PM

For the most part the success of the ethos of nasty within the ACSA has been through chasing out some people and intimidating others. The reality is some of us who have served lay office only to be barred by clergy from attending a funeral. But the bishops are too afraid of schism...

peter selwaski Oct 3, 2024, 12:51 AM

Rather than trying to force a congregation to accept what they consider is opposed in their religion those LGBTQ etc people are free to join another religious group.

Mary Burton Oct 3, 2024, 05:19 AM

Thank you Chris Ahrends for a voice of sanity and humanity.

Simangaliso Magudulela Oct 7, 2024, 11:01 PM

There's no sanity and humanity is what Fr Chris is saying. It's not rooted in Scripture and Tradition which he vowed to uphold when he was ordained a priest. He wants to become a law unto himself for calling for civil disobiedience against the Church's discerned decision.

petersholday Oct 3, 2024, 07:54 AM

I am not a member of the Anglican Church but grew up as a young person deeply influenced by the Christian values of love, understanding and compassion. So, Timbak Five, what is Christianity without Love? Just another group of people who can not bless, pray for or understand anybody different from us

peterwaller3 Oct 3, 2024, 08:18 AM

It's good that you know that you were deeply influenced by Christianity. The thing is, Christianity changed the world. But we should be careful before we tell God he isn't loving if he judges against some standard. That thinking leads to contradictions if you try and apply it in everyday life.

peterwaller3 Oct 3, 2024, 08:37 AM

Chris, how is gender a social construct???

nawbanksia Oct 3, 2024, 01:16 PM

Thank you for this, Chris. It's sad, but not surprising, that it has evoked some hateful responses. For those who think that scripture is the timeless word of God and for the rest of us who enjoy a good laugh, listen to Sara Pascoe's reading of a letter asking for clarity on God's law on youtube.

Mandy Schreiber Nov 19, 2024, 02:28 PM

What did we expect? Religious institutions are the very enemy of progress. And always have been. Always been more about control than love.