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Zuma’s blaming and shaming of pregnant teenagers is misdirected and cruel

I agree with the former president that teenage pregnancies are symptomatic of a disease, but like so many sexual diseases, it is transmitted by men.

Recently, at a rally in Pietermaritzburg, former president Jacob Zuma raised the issue of teenage pregnancies. Of course, this was not the first time.

A few years ago, when he was still president, he suggested that a university should be built on Robben Island and pregnant teenagers should be sent there to be educated. 

At the time, we thought it was a misguided joke, only to realise he was serious. After a public outcry (and presumably on the guidance of his advisers) we, thankfully, did not hear much more of it.

Yet here we are again. Back on the campaign trail, the father of 14 labelled teenage pregnancies a disease which, if he had his way, the uMkhonto Wesizwe party would put an end to by sending the young girls to the island where political prisoners were previously incarcerated by the apartheid government.

“We are going to take the children and fly them there so that they can study until they finish and stop this thing [teenage pregnancies],” he said.

Thankfully, as long as we are a constitutional state, such barbaric steps will never be allowed. The problem is that by suggesting a punishment reminiscent of the horrific Irish Magdalene Laundries, Zuma is legitimising commonly held misogynistic views about women and especially pregnant teenagers.

We live in a society where many men believe that they have the right to abuse women’s bodies for their pleasure or as an outlet for their aggression. The sad and shocking reality is that this is also true when it comes to teenagers and young children.

A report released last week by Statistics SA, Crime Against Children, found that rape was the most prevalent crime reported for children under the age of 17, with the highest incidence in KwaZulu-Natal.  

Just pause for a minute to let that sink in …

Of all the horrible crimes (housebreaking, car hijackings, etc) that affect children in our country, the one that happens to children — and girls in particular — the most, is rape. The report also found that sexual assault was nearly twice as high among children as it was in the general population.

Devastating consequences

Again, pause for a second. This means that children are targeted — presumably because they are more likely to remain quiet. So nothing happens to the paedophiles (yes, that is what they are), while the children are left with devastating long-term consequences, of which pregnancy is often one.

Statistics South Africa reported that 90,037 girls in SA aged 10 to 19 gave birth from March 2021 to April 2022. The Department of Basic Education reported that 190 learners in grades 3‚ 4 and 5 fell pregnant between 2014 and 2016. That means that these girls were between nine and 11 years of age.

Legally, the age of consent in South Africa is 16 years. Yet, we rarely see anyone prosecuted for statutory rape. In fact, like Zuma, many blame the victims for “not keeping their legs shut”, as someone wrote to me recently about social grants. It seems obvious that to point the finger at young girls who have no ownership or power over their own bodies is misdirected and cruel.

Zuma insisted that “under African law, when you are a child, you have no right to have a child”. Surely that should also mean that under African law (as in all rights-based legal systems) no man has the right to have sex with a child? Instead, the practice of adult men “blessing” young women with gifts in exchange for sex continues with impunity.

Not only do these men frequently transmit venereal diseases to these young girls, but when pregnancies inevitably happen they are nowhere to be found.

“You see children that have two, three children, but there is no baby-daddy in sight, and they are not married,” Zuma said. Yes, but why shame the girls for that? Why not insist that men take responsibility for their actions?

I agree with Zuma that teenage pregnancies are symptomatic of a disease, but like so many sexual diseases, it is transmitted by men. So, instead of shaming, blaming and wanting to banish women and girls, Zuma and other politicians should use their powerful voices to educate men to respect women and stay the hell away from young girls. DM

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Temba Morewa 14 March 2024 06:06 AM

Aaaaag, shame...

Irene Baumbach 14 March 2024 07:28 AM

Is such a comment appropriate?

n***4@g***.com 14 March 2024 11:15 AM

What do you mean by this comment you have made?

Jeff Robinson 14 March 2024 07:18 AM

Is it any surprise that such a character would effectively exonerate his fellows from blame. And with a world population of over 8 billion, having 14 children is nothing less than criminal. "Friends of Zuma" should be on their guard if they have daughters. Just ask Irwin Khoza and PLEASE let us never forget Fezekile Kuzwayo.

Malcolm McManus 14 March 2024 07:27 AM

If sexual diseases are transmitted by men, How do they contract the diseases in the first place. From other men, before then transmitting to a woman??? I have a male worker who proudly brags about his 13 girlfriends. He comes from the same tribe as Jacob Zuma. He gets very angry when any of his 13 girlfriends cheats on him. From what I can gather from this is that promiscuity is quite rife within Jacob Zumas Tribe. The 13 woman I refer to is a real figure from my workers own mouth. Not a made up figure. Jacob Zuma's own track record speaks for itself. Mathematically and based on the tribes culture of multiple wives, one can realistically make the assumption there is a lot of promiscuity. If there wasn't, half the male population would not indulge in sex at all unless it was male on male.

J vN 14 March 2024 10:14 AM

The fact that SA was Ground Zero for the AIDS pandemic tells its own story about the promiscuity of SA's males AND females.

ST ST 14 March 2024 02:05 PM

What do you mean ground zero? If you mean origin... the origin of HIV is not clear. Its thought to have evolved from a virus that originated in West/Central Africa from ? Chimpanzee-Human infection. It's associated with colonialism and events around blacks slaughtering a Chimpanzee ? food 1920-50. It was first formerly identified in the 80s. HIV did not become prevalent in SA until late 80-90's. Before then, it travelled the world and was very prevalent in Western countries gay communities around the 70's. It is very simplistic to conclude and or imply that SA men and women are somehow the ones responsible for HIV/AIDS because of their behaviour. Better not to make such statements without educating us about what you mean

virginia crawford 14 March 2024 07:35 AM

Name, shame and prosecute the men who get them pregnant.

Rona van Niekerk 14 March 2024 12:32 PM

Hear hear!

Dave Crawford 14 March 2024 01:38 PM

You did say prosecute? How?

Richard Bryant 14 March 2024 07:47 AM

But as a man, everything is ok as long as you have a shower. Zuma has such wide experience in these things! Just imagine how things would have been different in SA if Zuma had been correctly convicted of the rape of Khwezi and sentenced to jail. Or put in another way, if rather Zuma (and all the blesses) are sent to Robben Island for his crime, how safe girls would feel.

ittledoo 14 March 2024 12:03 PM

Agreed. But real jail, not the hospital section, and no parole!

J***4@g***.com 14 March 2024 08:17 AM

Thank you for this article, no political manifesto, party or any person for that matter is speaking up the rise of pedophilia, and our rape statistics for little children and women. The men in this country are sick, and something needs to be done about it or the long term impact this will have on our country will be devastating.

Eckart Schumann 14 March 2024 08:50 AM

Surely the men involved should be held responsible? It is easy enough to determine paternity, and such men should then have to ensure that the woman/girl gets the necessary care, and moreover the child born as a result of his actions should get the necessary funding for a decent childhood. Moreover, any man found guilty of rape should be castrated. He has shown that he does not care for other people, and as such cannot be allowed to be a parent.

Rae 14 March 2024 10:28 AM

When a black man wants to take a wife he has to pay lobola to the girl's family. This is done by negotiating the amount to be paid by the groom. It is in effect, no different to negotiations in the sale of cattle, or historically, the negotiations of slave traders of 200 years ago. Price is determined by various factors. A virgin commands a higher price than say an unmarried daughter who has a child. A well educated bride commands a higher price than an uneducated one. This system is highly problematic as it strongly infers that the man has bought a movable asset which is his to do with as he pleases. One wonders to what extent this has bearing on the arrogance and cruelty of African men towards women.

ittledoo 14 March 2024 11:57 AM

It is an old adage that those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. Zuma is incapable of understanding this.

Dermot Quinn 14 March 2024 12:15 PM

Melanie, no one reading this pays any credence to anything Zuma said or says. They know hes a problem and a thief with no moral compass. Now can you educate those that will vote for him.

T'Plana Hath 14 March 2024 02:21 PM

"Verwoerd's blaming and shaming of men as the cause of teen pregnancies and other 'sexually transmitted diseases' is misdirected ... and offensive." (AKA How to lose friends and alienate people.) This is an important article with an important message, but for the gratuitous broadside fired at 'men' in general. Why do this? Why would you start your message with a swift kick to the crotch when it adds no value and makes it far too easy for those who really do need to hear your message to dismiss you as a shrill, man-hating, feminazi? English allows for some very specific language - so be brave and independent; be specific, I dare you - how is it that you don't realise that when you generalise 'men' like this, ALL men will consider themselves addressed? Don't piss on my head and then tell me that it's raining. ... Then again, invoking a nebulous, all-powerful-but-invisible boogeyman to blame for all your woes seems to be SOP for an ANC MP ...

Alan Salmon 14 March 2024 08:30 PM

You seem to be in denial - pregnancy has to involve a man, and these are underage girls. ALL men should take responsibility for their sexual behaviour and in particular "stay the hell away from young girls."

Beverley Roos-Muller 14 March 2024 02:36 PM

Thank you for this thoughtful and accurate article, Melanie. It conveys the truth of disempowered young girls and women - they are left, literally, holding not only the baby but also the 'skaam' of it. I speak as the unwanted product of a young girl-woman whose impregnator not only took no responsibility for my birth - after promising to marry her (yeah, right) but vilified her afterwards. My great good luck was to have a strong widowed grandmother who adopted me; though she had few resources as an Irish immigrant, she enabled my education and therefore my ability to cope with the demands of future life. Not everyone has that luck. When I am asked about my father, I reply (in the words of John Boyne's female character in his latest, wonderful novel, Water) - there is no such person. My respect, however, to the men who are good and responsible fathers in this difficult and often dangerous world.

w***d@A***.net 14 March 2024 11:45 PM

You couldn't be more correct. To shame a young girl victimized by rape is not just an injustice to the girl but to all women and society as a whole. Rapists and pedophiles should be punished and incarcerated. Young women should not be afraid to report sexual assault and police should take that seriously. Rape is a crime that should not go unpunished.

ST ST 15 March 2024 07:38 AM

Patriarchy is fighting for its life here, and abroad it's the in the social media. and abroad. White supremacy is/has also been fighting in a similar way. No fun being a black woman then! You can see it and feel in the escalation of gender based violence and the resurrection of polygamy in SA. They celebrate and normalise it in some spaces. Reducing intelligent women to puppets to serve male egos. JZ is the poster father of that. So no wonder!