Bokgabo ‘Connie’ Poo was only four when she was murdered and her body mutilated in 2022. On what was to have been her sixth birthday, her devastated family say they are are still battling to come to grips with the lack of progress in her case and the fact that not all her remains have been found. (Photo: Supplied) 
On Friday, 12 January 2024, Bokgabo “Connie” Poo should have been celebrating her sixth birthday. However, almost two years after her abduction, murder and mutilation, her family is still grappling with the absence of justice and the mystery of the whereabouts of the rest of her body.
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/file/dailymaverick/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Bokgabo-grave-1.jpg "A tribute at Bokgabo Poo’s gravesite. (Photo: Supplied)")
Bokgabo’s tragic story began on 10 October 2022, when she was lured away from a park in Wattville, Benoni, by an unknown man later identified as Ntokozo Khulekani Zikhali. Only some of her remains were discovered in Tamboville, leaving her family devastated and searching for closure.
Zikhali, initially arrested in connection with Bokgabo’s disappearance, was acquitted in August 2023 of the murder, rape and mutilation charges. However, in the same month he was sentenced to life imprisonment for raping a nine-year-old girl in August 2021.
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/file/dailymaverick/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Bokgabo-and-dad.jpg "Bokgabo Poo and her father, Irvin Ndlovu. (Photo: Supplied)")
On what would have been Bokgabo’s sixth birthday, her father, Irvin Ndlovu, shared the heartbreak of a family denied justice.
“While today was meant to be a celebration of Bokgabo’s life as it’s her birthday. But we are heartbroken as we are reminded of the pain from almost two years ago. We are reminded that we have not received any form of justice. My daughter’s killers are still roaming around the streets and therefore, for us, there is nothing to celebrate but to drown in tears and pain. We feel let down by the justice system.
My little girl will be turning six today, but she is nowhere to celebrate it with us or her friends… She would be running around counting numbers and learning language and alphabet at school.
“There is not much communication happening, no feedback. I guess they just want this case to turn into a cold one just like the rest. But we will not rest until justice is served. My little girl will be turning six today, but she is nowhere to celebrate it with us or her friends… She would be running around counting numbers and learning language and alphabet at school. She has been deprived of this. I wish everyone involved could be exposed and punished.
“Happy heavenly birthday my little girl! Happy heavenly birthday Bokgabo!”
While Bokgabo Poo’s horrifying case initially stirred grief and fury, the lack of progress and justice highlights a broader issue in a country grappling with under-reported child murders. In a nation witnessing an alarming average of three child murders a day, the need for action and systemic change is becoming increasingly urgent.
As Bokgabo’s family marks this sombre occasion, the tragic narrative underscores the pressing need for tangible measures to protect the nation’s children and deliver justice for victims like Bokgabo Diseko Poo. DM