DM168 Reflection

‘Don’t you EVER quote that man, please!’

The 'Trump Baby' blimp, a six meter-high helium-filled effigy of U.S. President Donald Trump, flies over Parliament Square in London, U.K., on Friday, July 13, 2018. Photographer: Luke MacGregor/Bloomberg

I couldn’t believe I’d come across a person who not only believed Donald Trump, but also thought she could quote him as if he was a reliable source of information.

First published in the Daily Maverick 168 weekly newspaper.

“Did this woman just say she wasn’t going to take the coronavirus vaccine because she didn’t want her DNA to be scrambled? Is she an egg?”

Shut up!

“But she’s talking utter nonsense!”

I don’t care.

“You have a duty to educate people.”

Excuse me, since when?

“Since now!”

My snarky inner voice was having a whale of a time. I was less than amused.

I was sitting in the waiting area of a tyre fitment workshop recently. My van needed new tyres and I was forced to interact with strangers – something I had successfully avoided for the better part of a year … quite a few years, if I’m being honest.

I was the first to arrive as the shop opened and I made my way to the empty waiting area. A short while later, a guy walked in and settled down to eat a breakfast sarmie while trying to figure out where the tyre pressure sensors were on his SUV. I helped him figure it out, at a distance.

We settled back into a comfortable silence and then she walked in noisily and flopped onto the couch a little way across from me. A seemingly normal, somewhat senior citizen with a decidedly grumpy disposition.

Because the guy and I had established a rapport, we chatted for a bit and I felt bad about leaving her out of the conversation, so I asked about her car. (What’s that saying about good deeds and punishment?)

I think she spent 10 seconds telling us about her car and then two minutes launching into the usual “how terrible this country is” spiel.

The guy obviously felt likewise, so off they went at the speed of PPE tenderpreneurs deleting social media posts of the sports cars they’d just bought, while I pretended to be very interested in whatever was on my phone.

I was happily ensconced in my self-imposed, invisible fortress of solitude, but then she started talking about the Covid-19 vaccine and about not wanting her DNA to be scrambled. I shifted irritably in my seat. I didn’t want to say anything, mostly because she was speaking in such arrogant absolutes, she was barely giving the guy a chance to speak and I didn’t want to end up arguing with some nitwit conspiracy theorist.

I walked over to the workshop to check up on my tyres and when I returned to the waiting area, she was talking about another conspiracy theory.

“The bankers started those fires in California. It has nothing to do with climate change.”

“What bankers?” I asked.

“The big bankers. It’s true. I’m part of a group of truthseekers on Facebook and we know they started those fires.”

“Why? Why would they start fires that destroyed forests and homes and…?”

“They did it. We know they did it. They used those machines in the airplanes. They drop the flammable stuff all over the forest and then they start the fire and it spreads all over.”

I shook my head and the guy who had been indulging her also tried to ask why bankers would do this, but she didn’t answer. She just carried on about the machines in the planes.

Then she moved back to Covid-19.

“These masks are ridiculous and I tell you, I’m not going to have that vaccine. It was created by WHO and you can’t trust them. I mean why else would Trump have pulled their funding? He said…”

It was as if I had fainted and someone had just waved smelling salts under my nose. My eyes widened, my breath quickened and my heart started to race. I drew myself up slightly and then said very firmly, and very slowly:

“Don’t you ever quote that man! He has told thousands of lies over the years and hundreds of thousands of Americans are dying because of his stupidity and his lies. Please don’t!”

She paused for all of three seconds before starting up again about masks, but she had the good sense not to mention Trump again. I went back to the workshop to watch them do the wheel alignment on my van and then I stood in the rain.

I couldn’t believe I’d come across a person who not only believed Donald Trump, but also thought she could quote him as if he was a reliable source of information. Obviously my friends, colleagues and family know better, and I had assumed that middle-class, educated South Africa knew better too, but they clearly don’t.

As I stood in the cooling summer drizzle, I felt bad about not trying to get her to see reason, about not trying to make her understand how she was being manipulated by conservative conspiracy theorists, about not trying to educate her about news sources and why she couldn’t trust groups on Facebook or right-wing news outlets like Fox News. Even though I knew she wouldn’t listen to me, or give me much of a chance to speak, I felt bad about not trying and I still do.

I didn’t venture back into the waiting area. As I was leaving, the guy ran up to me to say:

“Jeez, what a nutter! That woman is mad. Please don’t think we’re all like that.”

As I drove off and immediately appreciated how grippy my new tyres were in the wet, I wondered who he was referring to when he said “we” – white people, senior citizens, the middle class, South Africans, tyre customers? DM168

Sukasha Singh is the production editor of DM168.

This story first appeared in our weekly Daily Maverick 168 newspaper which is available for free to Pick n Pay Smart Shoppers at these Pick n Pay stores.


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  • All information is subjective, and if we fall into the trap of thinking “they are wrong we are right” , this is a societal problem. Religion, science, politics..these schools all think they know better. If one fall into one of these or any category and has an opinion, then it may be beneficial to think again. The new world needs new ways to see. We all need to cast off the chains of thought we inherit and look anew.

  • Once again DM allows any comment – provided it is anti-Trump. The author rails about the comments of some random woman, yet he is quoted as saying “Hundreds of thousands of Americans are dying because of his stupidity and lies”, which about puts him on par with the dilly lady. Problem is:- She can be dismissed, but he is an opinion former at DM

    • It appears that you got a problem with blaming Trump for thousands of unnecessary deaths. Don’t you realise that his incompetence is the reason that the US is the “world leader” in Covid infections and deaths?

      • Prejudice is not a substitute for knowledge. In the USA, health is largely a STATE competence, and Democratic Party-led California is one of the worst affected. Trump’s policies may well have been imperfect, but to blame him for hundreds of thousands of deaths indicates a firmly shut mind.

        • So … can we conclude that during the election build-up, the numerous super spreader rallies (with almost no one wearing masks), both against the advice and recommendation of his own CDC, in his desperate attempts to hold onto the presidency, were just an illusion or a media creation ? ‘Imperfect’ is not the ONLY word I would use to describe the approach ! maybe you can help me find another … or possibly several . While you are about it, think about the “… MAY well have… ” also please. Apologies for my capitals emphasis.

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